Sara Zaske
may have German roots, but she’s a proud American. However, when her husband is
offered a job in Germany and the family relocates to Berlin, Zaske realizes that
not everything in the land of the free is the best.
Despite
being in a country where her grasp of the language was questionable, and where
natives have an unusual love of bureaucracy and files, Zaske discovered that
there’s one thing the Germans truly excel at, and it’s not automotive engineering.
It’s raising independent humans.
The
mistakes of times past and mass human rights violations throughout the world
wars were likely a trigger for the reformation of raising German children, but
Zaske is adamant that the Germans are doing it properly. Reflecting on her
preconditioned tendency to be a helicopter parent, Zaske examines what’s wrong
with raising kids in the USA, and what the Germans do better.
While you
may be inclined to think that one woman’s experiences and opinions hardly
warrant a book praising an entire nation’s child-rearing skills, Zaske cites
several studies and experts in explaining her admiration of the Germans and how
they handle their offspring. Achtung Baby
is an easy to read and easy to follow book that will have you reconsidering not
only how families treat their young, but how whole societies do it.
If, like
me, you don’t have children, don’t let that put you off reading this book. There
are lessons and insights that go beyond child-rearing, and make sense of societal
trends, communal tendencies, and family psychology. In short, it’s a brief
study about habits of our time, and how we ingrain these in those that proceed
us.
Achtung Baby by Sara
Zaske is published by Piatkus, an imprint of Hachette Books, and is available
in South Africa from Jonathan Ball Publishers.